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Can we get a resounding amen? Men have been trying to tell women this since the dawn of time but they never listen- then they turn around and say we never listen.

However, one sociologist (that’s all we need) has confirmed what every man knows from the day they are born- men are designed, programmed, to cheat.

According to ‘sociologist, sexologist and professor Eric Anderson’ as The Huffington Post described him; monogamy is an unnatural cultural expectation that goes against the very instincts of men.

Singer and actor Tyrese Gibson and rapper Rev Run are starting their own relationship show, “It’s Not You, It’s Men”, on Oprah’s OWN network; and they brought the controversial sociologist in for an episode.

“Men are endocrinologically designed to cheat,” Anderson said

“Monogamy is not the normal expectation across the world — monogamy never has been a normal expectation across the world. It is a new invention.”

He went on to say that people feel bad after cheating due to social constructs of relationships, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

“The reason it’s (cheating) connected to pain is because we’re socially constructed to view cheating and sex outside of marriage as being damaging. Therefore, when monogamy goes wrong, we’re supposed to believe that the relationship is dead. That’s simply not true.

“[Cheating] might just be about having s*xual desires met. Not because you failed to love, not because you don’t respect your partner.”

Therefore, society needs to look at new ways of doing things, since we can all agree that traditional monogamy isn’t working.

“The model we have isn’t working.” he continued.

“I want to teach society to accept that alternative relationship types are viable — including open relationships, including swinging.”

To all those ladies who disagree, I only have four words for you- Abraham, Jacob, David and Solomon.
Source: ghanacelebrities.com

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