In an exclusive interview with media personality, Azuka Ogujiuba, actress Tonto Dikeh wept as she spoke about her failed marriage to her estranged husband, Oladunni Churchill. According to Tonto, she does not regret her marriage and didn't grant the interview to discredit her ex-husband. She stated that she indeed suffered domestic violence while she was with Churchill.
"The domestic violence is real. How I lived to suffer it and go through it over and over again, I do not understand. Alot of people have blamed me. A lot of people have said a lot of things. I stayed back in my marriage, not because of my child, but because I loved my husband with all of my heart. I stayed because he begged me to stay a couple of times. I stayed because I just didn't want to give up. I didn't want to give up on the marriage just like that." Watch the video after the cut...
She shared photos and even a video of herself after she was physically abused by her ex husband. Tonto says sometime ago when they were in Ghana, she had to run to the Nigerian Embassy after he had physically abused her
"I also have pictures in Ghana. The Nigerian embassy in Ghana has pictures of me. I had to run to them at some point. The reason I can't release those pictures is because I was stark naked. My husband has humilated me so much and for anybody to tell me I am lying against my husband, that even hurts me more".
Tonto says if she had her way, she would love to delete everything about herself on the internet because of her child
"If I had my way, I would like to delete everything. I would like to delete my whole existence because of my child because I know that the internet never dies. He is going to grow up, he is going to read them and it is going to hurt him@.
The mother of one says associating her with drugs is the most hurtful misconception people have of her.
"Something that has really hurt me in recent times is someone associating me with drugs as a mother. That hurt me so much because nobody sees how good of a mother I am. Nobody knows the sacrifices I have made for my son. I do a drug test almost every month. I write a letter to my son every month on his birthday about how much he has changed my life, how much he has made me a better person, about how I have stopped so many things for him. That really destroyed me. That really broke me into a million pieces. That is the worst thing I have heard".
Tonto says she is aware that her ex-husband PA, Rosey Meurer is sleeping with him
"I am aware of her. I am aware she is sleeping with my husband. I am aware my husband is taking care of her. I am also aware that she is the reason why my husband abandoned his son with me for close to two months just before the big foundation thing we did in December because he took her on a trip. No she is not my husband's sister. My husband is not her brother. She doesn't know me. I have never spoken to my husband about her before but I do know their story and I do know that they are in love. It is not just a mere relationship. I have picrtures of them being on a trip abroad together, that is something my husband has never done for me or his family. Where that hurts me more was that I watched my husband make every single dime that he owns. I know the sacrifices that I have made for my family. All I expect was for him to be good to his family. Women are not the porblem I have with husband"she said
She denied allegations that she physically assaulted her mother in-law.
Watch the interview below.
Rosey Meurer
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MY DEAR, I ADVISE YOU DON'T TALK MUCH CONCERNING THIS ISSUE, I KNOW ITS VERY HURTING... YOU NEED NOT TO PROVE TO ANYONE YOU ARE A CHANGED PERSON. GOD KNOWS YOUR HEART, HE WILL WIPE AWAY ALL YOUR TEARS. BE PRAYERFUL AND KEEP ON BELIEVING IN GOD FOR HE WILL NEVER LET YOU DOWN... JUST STAY FOCUSED, GOD IS ALWAYS OUR REFUGE AND STRENGTH, AN EVER PRESENT HELP IN TROUBLE.
Love keeps no records of wrong. It appears couples these day are in for the "better" part of the marriage vows but not the "worse". A generation of hypocrates who always profess to know God but can't live with their spouses. A lost generation indeed.
Tonto my love God will dry your tears He will strengthen u so u can be strong for your son just give it all to God He loves u all will be well pray and trust God Put your faith in Him. He will prepare your table in the presence of your enemies He will lead you besides quiet waters He will take your pain and sorrows away He will restore your joy and happiness God bless u always .
I love your comment. I was thinking about the same thing when I heard her story. But some people take Mountain of Fire and Prayer City for granted. Thank you for your comment.
tonto dikeh's wedding as it has collapsed many would think she hasnt put in her best, and same applies to the husband, but marriage is about understanding, friendship and love, whatever happened between this two may never be known but one thing for sure is they let too many people into there marriage, thats the first and biggest mistake
I do not comment on stuff like this but I have watched her movies when at a point in time, i admired naija movies. Its only one side of the story and the man might not care to share his side. For whateva reason that led to the breakdown of her marriage, She has the ultimate right to make herself happy. She has to love herself for no one will do it better. If what she claims is true, then she needs to leave if she has not done so already: for herself and son's sake. She can raise a successful man who will be a great benefit society, all by herself!!! There has to be a will to do so.
The devil attacks marriage, he always fights marriages. Marriage gives glory to God so the devil fights it and want to destroy it. You fight back with prayers not tears. If it means going to prayer city, mountain of fire n miracles to pray serious prayers with fasting and lying in the altar of God, involving the pastor in the church to join u in this prayer warfare. God will save ur marriage n deliver ur husband from every demonic spell. A man who assaults his legal wife bcos of a common cheap ***barred word*** is definetly under the influence n control of something not from God but the enemy. Pray with a powerful pastor n break it
Yes this is what happens to girls or women who choose to date rich men..
Well, lets wait and hear Churchill's side of the story too. But i dont support Churchill abusing her at all. Tonto has been acting lotta movies abt marriage, the better and the worst side of it. If those movies are to educate the populace, then why is she destroying all the work she has done now? She should take it as part of a role given to her in a movie by God and teach the world how they can handle such a situation in real life and come out victorious. Otherwise, am going to start believing their movies are just to decieve the masses. God bless.
i wish she can read all these comments....I love you and your movies and was excited when i heard you married.Sweetheart,pls put urself together and move on.take care of ur son and be the strong woman i see in you...pls dear,this is not the end of life,forget those happy this marriage didnt end well.its not abt ur sins or anything,just cry to God even if your past was bad.Am sad for you but joy is in The Lord.IT IS WELL