Security Analyst, Irbard Ibrahim seems to have stepped on the wrong toes of some of his fans on social media after posting comments they consider insensitive to women.
Read his posts below
First Post
As African men, we fulfill our responsibility to take care of our wives and kids- that is for those who are married. Spousal insubordination doesn't mean we are an enlightened society. What the heck do you expect a man to do if a woman he clothes, gives shelter and does everything for insults his mother? Copying blindly from the West doesn't make this Third-World country an enlightened one. God created a man and a woman and gave them roles and responsibilities. If you have a different opinion, that is up to you. You can't prevent others from holding opinions that run counter to yours.
Second Post
Have you asked yourself this question? Take note. Whenever a woman is crying foul about why women should not iron a man's shirt, do the dishes or do the cooking at home, she may belong to one of these groups:
1. She can't get a husband because no true African man will tolerate such insubordination
2. She is a single parent living in loneliness without the natural protection of a man or
3. She is living in a marriage worse than yours and is only luring you out of your marriage which is better.
If you think you can prevent me from saying this, then you are the biggest joke of this century!
Third Post
Qur'an Chapter 4 Verse 34 says:
" Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [on the women] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard (their chastity). But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand"
I prefer to promote God's or Allah's Law than promote ill-informed, man-made, ridiculous feminist laws.
If a woman disrespects you, your parents or tries to cut you off from your family and you sit there like 'barima kokobanku', then that's completely up to you. Not all men will accept this rubbish! And if all you can do to counter an opinion as a lady is insult, then you are only insulting yourself. I don't even realize you exist!
However, his followers on facebook thought his comments promoted domestic abuse. Read some of their comments
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God bless you, you have said it all, copying blindly from the west is the cause of divorces today in our society
It is unfortunate that the fire that gutted his house some months ago did not kill this 1diot. Such wicked minded humans who justify their wicked deeds with religion don't deserve to live. I pray another fire consume him in the near future! How can a sane human support abuse of women?
he is right according to their book, they are allowed to beat and turcher their wives. all their men have a cane which they use in beating their wives. dont blame him, its the book
hey hey, male females and some females should let us think. what wrong has he said, isnt it the truth. why are we so loosing our great culture and copying blindly like that. we nor saying our ladies are rag or mats but infact, as ghanaians its demeaning ya lady insults ya parents or yaself same way is demeaning if a kid insults an adult. i keep on telling the ladies, if they think they have right, they must go on, look at afia pokuaa and gifty anti, arent they nice and popular women but they have that great respect for their marriage. lil unfaithful ladies trying to fuck aroun always complain and protest for female, gender etc. if you accept the responsibilities as a lady and the man also does, will we ever have problems?. some females are so unfaithful these days like some of our fore fathers. Ghana isnt like that, the freedom to abuse a man isnt in the Bible, Quran or our customs, better they SUGAR us to HONEY them or we blindly copy to get broken homes
RAMA, Its equally absurd for a normal wife to just insult her inlaw. If your wife was that before you married her then you the husband is the problem. However as others have said, if she becomes disrespectful in the marriage, first find out the reason for the change and also check if you are not th3 common factor to be able to help her change. If she doesnt change after all the availavble helps then send her back to her family (where you legally) took her from. No form, amount or means of violence must be encouraged and accepted in marriage. Let's help change the negatives in our society.
IT IS EQUALLY AN UNENLIGHTENED D1MWI+ WHO IN THIS MODERN AGE SEES A WOMAN AS A SUBORDINATE AND WILL ADVOCATE PHYSICAL ASSAULT ON THEM. A LOUD MOUTH SO CALLED SECURITY EXPERT THINKS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON A FEMALE IS THE ANSWER TO ANY MISUNDERSTANDING. SUCH PR1MITIVE THOUGHTS EXPOSES HIS IGN0RANC£ AND UTTER $TUP1DITY AND ANYONE WHO SUPPORTS SUCH N0N£$ENSE. ANY BACKWARD THINKING F00-1 ALWAYS JUSTIFIES THEIR BUFF00--N£RY WITH QUOTATIONS FROM HOLY SCRIPTURES. YOUR WIFE 1N$ULT$ YOUR MUM ALLEGEDLY, AN ULTIMATE TABOO, SO DIVORCE HER , LET HER GO AWAY, WHAT WILL PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING HER ACHIEVE FOR YOU? A TWA+ LIKE THIS IBRA WILL NO DOUBT STILL HAVE U$£L£SS MEDIA HOUSES FEATURING HIM FOR HIS MISINFORMATION. KEEP RELYING ON SOME ARCHAIC VERSES IN A BOOK THAT SEEKS TO SUPPRESS ANOTHER HUMAN BEING AND KEEP HITTING YOUR WIFE OR ADVOCATING OTHERS TO DO SO. WHEN THE LONG ARM OF THE LAW CATCHES UP WITH YOU, CALL ON GOD OR ALLAH OR THE BIBLE OR THE QUR'AN TO SAVE YOU AND LETS SEE. IN THE PHYSICAL WORLD, MAN MADE LAWS PREVAILS. EDUCATE YOURSELF ABOUT FEMINISM AND OTHER PROGRESSIVE THEORIES AND STOP EXPOSING YOUR IGN0RANC£. KWA$1A FUNU AAAA KWA.
Indeed! i do agree with him. NO body will stand and watch anyone insult their mother.i mean how? insult ur husband's mother? She deserves more beating. such insubordination.Some of these women make marriage look scary and uninviting. if only they can be a little respectful to their husbands.No man will hit his wife if there's peace.
What wrath! He is speaking the truth.