Sexotherapist Dr Larry Boateng has asserted that more than half (65 per cent) of married women in Ghana seek sexual pleasure outside marriage.
He made the revelation during a discussion on successful marriage on Class FM’s Executive Breakfast Show.
The family counsellor told host Moro Awudu on Thursday, May 11, that times have changed and by the time couples settle down the women may have been exposed to different kinds of men with different sexual experiences and if the husbands do not live up to such standards, the wives tend to seek pleasure elsewhere.
He stated that research has proven that cheating wives are “very common in Ghana now”, adding: “Do you know why? They [the husbands] are not performing.”
Dr Boateng further explained that financial challenges have contributed to husbands, often the providers in the family, spending so much time working to earn enough income for the family at the expense of quality time with their spouses.
“The man will leave the house by 5:30am and go to work, get back by 10pm or 11pm very tired. He will provide all the necessities of the family, give money and everything. But I am telling you that if you are not able to ‘fire’ your wife somebody will ‘fire’ her for you,” he emphasised.
He identified sex as a major challenge in marriage and encouraged couples to learn how to satisfy each other in bed.
“If the woman demands it in the night, do it, but if not you can adopt the dawn one. You have gone out you come back, shower and sleep. At dawn, around 3am or 4am, you will wake up very energetic and strong and that is when you can also do the work,” he admonished.
Source: Classfmonline
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This counsellor is out of touch with the subject where did he take his statistics from and how many of the evolution did he analyse to merit what he is saying. This is absurdity.
We need u to fire us plssss, men...even if we complain that's when u should fire us more, especially those men with huge and long ones. Plssssss..m
hahahaha, interesting comments. Serwaa, all hope is not lost. I think you should stop complaining about the situation and start creating a solution (that is not to say go outside your marriage). No matter how you think he sees you, start looking good again. change your appearance (hair, dressing, perfume etc) freequently. Basically what i'm saying is, make him want you.
hahahaha @Serwaa three years is jst too much ooo ask him to divorce u if he doesnt want u anymore and for real 99.99.9% men also cheat as for sm women they will cheat cos they didnt taste the tin before marriage and so the "me pe no saaaa" is there and they fire outside
ASEM OOO!
I want someone to fire me ooo. It's been 3 years since my husband touched me. It's like I do not even exist during the night. I've been complaining a lot about but still nothing. If I look for it elsewhere I will be called "***barred word***". God help me.
wo y3 dwamanfooo paaaaa, u wnat him to fire u 24/7. And 99% of men also cheat even after their wives gives in to them they will stil go and fire outside
I know its common but 65% is huge. Maybe 25% I would agree.
Fire 🔥 us ooo! We are suffering in bed