Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams has charged Christian men to learn to be romantic in relating with their wives and desist from their “boring” attitude which is causing many problems for women in Christian marriages.
Preaching to his congregation in the second service on Palm Sunday, 25 March 2018 at Action Chapel International (ACI) off the Spintex Road, the Presiding Archbishop and General Overseer of ACI, said: “Some of the problems in the church with Christian women and their husbands is the fact that a lot of Christian men are not romantic. A lot of Christian men, you are very boring”.
He was concerned that the husbands stick to particular ways of doing things and not explore in order to spice up their love lives and their marriages.
“One way all the time; same place all the time, always bedroom, always you turn the light off,” he lamented.
Archbishop Duncan-Williams wondered how a husband will make his wife cook every day and never think of taking her to a restaurant once a while so they can enjoy some meals in a cozy environment as the wife takes a break from culinary roles.
“Your wife cooks every day. You don’t take her for lunch, you don’t take her for dinner, you’re always doing Bible studies and prayer meetings. Marriage is not prayer meetings, marriage is not Bible studies. Marriage is not spirituality. Marriage requires some things; you have to do some things. Christian brothers wake up,” he admonished the husbands in his church.
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OH I SEE NOW THAT THIS WAS THE REASON THAT MADE YOUR WIFE LEAVE YOU. EXPERIENCE THEY SAY IS THE BEST TEACHER. EDUCATE US MORE ON YOUR PERSONAL LIFE EXPERIENCES. ON THE ISSUE OF TAKING WIVES TO RESTAURANTS FOR LUNCH OR DINNER IS WITHIN YOUR MEANS BECAUSE YOU CAN AFFORD TO COERCE YOU CONGREGATION TO DONATE TO YOUR EXPENDITURE PROGRAMMES SUCH AS PAYING YOUR CHILDRENS FEES, BUILDING YOUR HOUSES, BUYING AND FUELINIG YOUR CAR, JUST NAME IT. HOW MANY CHRISTIAN MEN HAVE THAT OPPORTUNITY WHEN THEY HAVE TO GO TO BANKS AND MONEY LENDERS TO FULL EVEN THEIR MOST PRESSING NEEDS? DON'T USE YOUR POSITIONS TO CAUSE PROBLEMS FOR YOUNGER CHRISTIANS COMING UP AND HAVE OVER-BURDENED RESPONSIBILITIES TO HANDLE. GO LOOK AT THE SALARIES OF MOST WORKERS AND MOVE TO THE MARKETS AS WELL AS COMPARE RENT BILLS THEN YOU WILL GET THE REAL PLIGHT OF YOUR CHRISTIAN MEN.