Human rights lawyer Francis Xavier Sosu is calling on the President of the Ghana Bar Association (GBA), Mr Tony Forson to with immediate effect step aside for investigations to be launched into allegations of rape against him.
This comes after a criminal complaint filed by a Canada-based Ghanaian lawyer, Kuukuwa Andam against Mr Forson in Washington D.C. in the U.S.A on the alleged incident which happened in 2012.
Though Mr Forson has through his lawyers, Beyuo & Co denied the allegation; Mr Sosu in an interview with Class FM advice Mr Tony Forson to step aside as President of the GBA until he has been exonerated or otherwise.
“Sexual allegations are very serious allegations, and while we wait for this to be investigated, I think it will be in the interest of our senior colleague who is also the President of the Bar to just step aside to allow the investigation to go on and if he’s innocent, he can always come back,” he said.
Adding that, “Beyond stepping aside or resigning there will also be the need for the General Legal Council to conduct some investigation.”
However, Ms Andam has narrated her ordeal in a Facebook post.
Below is her full statement on Facebook
How I was raped by Anthony Forson Jnr. (Ghana Bar Association President) & have filed a criminal complaint against him in Washington D.C.
Yesterday, I filed a criminal complaint with the Washington DC Police Department against the current President of the Ghana Bar Association for a rape that occurred in the US in December 2012 and the perpetrator was Anthony Forson Jnr who is currently the President of the Ghana Bar Association. The investigation is pending & if the case is cleared, charges will be filed against him.
I want to be clear just as I stated in my post on Selasi that I DO NOT want or need a pesewa from Tony. I have my own money. Not to boast but I teach several courses at a top-notch university in Canada & just finished managing a major research project. I am a published author & I am regularly invited to participate in paid speaking opportunities due to my activist work. So this is not about money. This is about justice & trying to ensure that the next generation of Gh. female lawyers will never suffer the way that I have suffered.
I met Tony at the last Ghana Bar Association event I attended before travelling to study for my masters at Cornell University. This was almost a year after being raped by Selasi & my heart had hardened. After my bitter experience, I had decided that most married male lawyers in Ghana were going to take advantage of you anyway so it was better to just date them for money. At that time, I needed money for Cornell as my funding only covered my tuition. So when Tony told me he wanted to date me, I agreed. He would send me many messages telling me he loved me. I used to call him 'T-baby.' He knows all these things & can admit them if only he will be honest.
We never had actual sex in Ghana although we were physically intimate (would kiss & touch & do other stuff) and then I left for Cornell. I did any job I could find in Cornell just to survive. I asked a relative for rent & he told me if he gave me the money I wouldn't pay back. That was the day I realized I was on my own. I worked as a cook in a cafeteria & would stand for hours. I worked as a cleaner. I would be so tired I would sleep during lectures. Eventually, I decided to contact Tony for money.
He told me to meet him at a hotel in Washington DC for the rent money. It was close to school exams but I went anyway. Remember that at this time we hadn't actually had sex but I told myself that I would just close my eyes & do it with a condom (because I knew he was sleeping with many women) & then at least I wouldn't have to drop out of school. He told me he would arrange transportation for me.
I lost my laptop in the taxi & arrived at the hotel crying my eyes out. All my lecture notes were on that laptop and losing it meant I would fail the exams. Tony didn't care. By this time, I knew the drill with dating married men. I knew that they claimed to love you but of course, they didn't. You were just a piece of meat so I wasn't shocked at his reaction.
As soon as I settled in, he asked for sex. I had already psyched myself up and so I asked him whether he had a condom. When he said no, I pleaded with him to allow me to at least go get a condom but he pinned me down & raped me. I still remember how it felt to be forcefully penetrated by him. How I felt as if I had left my body & was watching everything happening form the ceiling. I have heard from other rape survivors that this is a common occurrence. At one point I began to wince from pain because I wasn't ready & he had forced himself on me but that didn't stop him. Not even the tears that began to fall out of the corners of my eyes stopped him. Then it was over. And I felt so broken and dirty and ashamed. But it got worse.
After raping me, he refused to talk to me. It was as if he had been filled with some new hatred for me. He told me with disdain that I could take the $400 on the table if I wanted. I almost went mad. I couldn't believe that he had forced himself on me & was not even talking to me. And the money he had given me was even less than the price of the laptop I had lost just to see him. So I had been raped & ended up in debt too. I began to cry my eyes out & text a friend of mine about what had happened. God bless you, dear friend, she knows herself. She advised me to quickly return to Cornell and that she would help me through this. I booked a bus & left & he didn't care what happened to me either way.
As soon as I arrived in my room at the University, I cut off all my hair with a piece of scissors & threw away my nice clothes. I was so tired of being raped & mistreated by men & I wanted to be ugly so that no man would even want to have sex with me again or rape me again. I swallowed several sleeping pills that I had been prescribed by a therapist I had been seeing to deal with the other rape I had suffered previously. Then I called an African professor who was like a father to all of us African students at Cornell to tell him that I had overdosed on sleeping pills and he contacted the Deputy Dean of Cornell Law and some hospital staff to assist me.
For the next few weeks, I would be hospitalized in a mental ward as I broke down. This also began my struggle with binge eating because I would just binge on food anytime memories of my rape by Tony & Selasi came up. I put on so much weight & developed health-related problems because of it. I could not write my exams that term & when I eventually did, I got very poor results due to all this trauma. I was put on anti-depressants which I had to swallow for years because of what Tony did to me. 4 years later in 2016, I would attempt to commit suicide again this time at Queen's University because I still could not get over what Tony did to me.
And yet I continued to be nice to him. I was terrified of losing my visa if I could not pay for my upkeep & he was my only hope. How would I survive winter in the US without an apartment & on the streets? When he contacted me after I was in the mental ward, I just told him I was sick but didn't tell him why. We both pretended that he had not raped me & never spoke about it. I had to keep the act up so I wouldn't offend him.. Soon, he said he was coming to Boston in 2013 & I should meet him & I told him I would and even acted like I was excited. But that was the last time I would communicate with him. I just couldn't bring myself to contact him again after that because of what he had done to me.
I decided not to talk to him for the rest of my life although he would frequently send messages through some other lawyers to me. Seeing him in the news hurt especially when he was appointed as President of the Ghana Bar Association. I could not believe he had ruined my life in this way & now I was forced to see his name/ face in newsletters that were circulated to all Ghanaian lawyers. That also sent me into depression for months.
A few days ago, I sent him a message to tell him how much he had hurt me. That he & I both know he raped me. But the same person who had been chasing me to talk to him now refused to even acknowledge receipt of my email. All I wanted was for him to say sorry & assure me that he would never do this again to someone's daughter again but he did not do this. I forgive him But I have to speak my truth & pursue justice for the sake of younger female lawyers who will come up. I owe them a duty to make sure they never go through even half of the pain I have gone through. What Tony did to me changed my spirit forever. I used to be called 'cute' & 'bubbly.' I became sad, depressed & cynical. I can't even sleep through a complete night anymore. He stole my life & this is not ok.
However, Mr Forson’s attorneys, Beyuo & Co., in a published statement, said their client “sincerely and emphatically denies that he has committed any such offence”, adding that: “The allegations are palpably false and in due course, he will be vindicated”.
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'Yesterday, I filed a criminal complaint with the Washington DC Police Department against the current President of the Ghana Bar Association for a rape that occurred in the US in December 2012 and the perpetrator was Anthony Forson Jnr who is currently the President of the Ghana Bar Association. The investigation is pending & if the case is cleared, charges will be filed against him'. This type of NONSEN&%SE is supported only in the US and the like. Rapped in 2012? Why Now? Do do just woke up from the rape that happened in 2012? Blackmailer and '***barred word***' woman! Just following the NONSEN&%#SE that is going on at where you are staying! Not in Ghana! We have VALUES!
Like father like Son. Go and search for KKD May be he could pray for you against your possible divorce which will definitely come. Your father made your mom so miserable with his womanizing that she died and left him behind till he finally decided to join her in peace or pieces. O.fu.i GBA president my foot!
All those who are condemning this lady are not humans , in fact all over the world especially in India women are going through hell in the hands of bmen. Tony Forson Jnr. your late father nearly raped me when he was an attorney general or whatever. I was nearly raped by him for a mere visa,he had wanted to take advantage on me but my God delivered me from that old good for nothing man. I totally believed that lady story because sometimes life is really unfair and we all can testify to ourselves. Tony, this is the end of you. Your cup is Full. Stop insulting the Lady she has already paid the price. Enough
GBA president???
BOTH YOU AND THE RAPER ARE FOOOOOUUULLLS BOTH YOU AND TONY ARE FOOOUUULLLS... STOP DISTURBING OUR EARS.... WHO OPEN YOUR LEGS? WHO REMOVED YOUR PANTS,UNDERWEAR? NKWASIA SEM PAAAAAAAANIE?
I don't know why a sympathy party is being organized for this lady........Though I will not condone rape.....but if you agree or consented to the show, why come out now after 6 or 7 years to be making noise? Were you forced into that hotel room? If you knew he had slept with so many men, why did you not go prepared by carrying your own condom in-case he came not prepare? Was the hotel room, sound proof that when you scream no one would have come to your rescue? You were in die need of money for up-keep and instead of relying on God and working hard no matter what, chose the easy way.......You regret the act but could not say nothing because it was a necessary evil then!!! You should bow your head in shame........................ And you Papa whatever you call yourself.....have you seen the shame you have brought on yourself, wife, children and family if you have? What at all is in this girl that your wife does not have, since i presume you are old enough to have a wife.......Couldn't you lend a helping hand to this lady without taking advantage of her? What if same is done to your daughter? You are a big disgrace to your profession, family, wife, children church or whatever.......You should bow your big head in shame.......it is the likes of you causing so much problem in our country....Shame on you again!!!
Why will you accept only sorry on behalf of rape? So all would have be OK if he say SORRY??? When putting up a story,try to arrange the story very well,because few people out here read and read again before we act,how many of you ladies carry your laptop on a date whiles you already knew what you are going there for......i rest my case.
HMMMMMMM. After deciding that you will definately open your legs….
Why was it rape? Because there wasn’t a condom in the act? Or the lost laptop? These ladies should give us a break!
Does the US law agencies have record on what the lady is saying.Did she report the matter.Why kept guite in US and come and cry in Ghana.This is absolutely bunkum. A daughter of law professor hiding something for years,is because she has no money to hire an attorney?