It is the bounden duty of every authentic counselor to empathize with a grieving human being who is going through emotional pain. The feeling of emotional distress may be an outcome of divorce or any other human experience that can trigger the feelings of an emotional pain.
The human mind is very fragile and it takes few minutes or seconds for some individuals who are feeling the sense of abandonment, rejection, cheated and unloved to commit suicide or choose life.
The task of the modern Counselor or Chaplain who has been trained in the fundamentals of a modern psychological methodology of counseling is to be a listener. It means the Counselor must pry into the hidden emotional key words embedded in the pronouncements of the patient without posing questions. It is the responsibility of the Counselor to step into the world view or the pit of the patient to assist him or her to come out of it. And it takes a lot of training to develop the skills to do it. In fact, it is detrimental to the patient for any so-called Counselor to pontificate what a patient must do. It is about time Mr. Lutterodt puts an end to his Shaming methodology of counseling which is causing more harm in the psyche of the Ghanaian society.
If I were to grade Mr. Lutterodt on his counseling skills as my student I would give him the grade of ‘F’. He lacks the fundamentals of modern counsel skills; therefore, he should cease from upholding himself as a counselor. It is empirically evident that Mr. Lutterodt is out of touch with fundamentals of modern psychological counseling methodology. In
In article entitled, “ Counselor Lutterodt Attacks Julliet Ibrahim”, dated, February 28, 2017, he rants on, “ I felt very sad that she wants people to stop pressure on her.
I see that as one of disappoints. The success of a woman is not owning a company and being the CEO. But rather making a family and making a man respected at the beautiful gate of the whole world…” Oh! What a shame Mr. Lutterodt? A human being, in the person of Ms. Julliet Ibrahim is feeling emotional pain due to divorce and why are you taking pleasure in shaming her as a Christian?
Where is the CHRIST in you? You are supposed to empathize with her and console her with flowering-Spirit words as a Christian; however, you are pontificating what you want her to do in order to shame her. You have miserably failed in your endeavor, the lady has greater Will Power than you.
Lady Ibrahim is feeling a sense of loss and we need to empathize with her by supporting her Divine-Right decision to be a good mother to her child and also an Awesome CEO for her business. It is about time a qualified Counselor/Chaplain stands up to Mr. Lutterodt and his archaic methodology of counseling. We need to throw light on the false pronouncements of Mr. George Lutterodt. He is a fake Counselor nobody should pay attention to him.
Ms. Julliet Ibrahim, I do empathize with you and support your decision to be a good mother to your child and taking care of your business. I am praying for the Divine Protection of your family and business. I am casting the Divine Fire around you, child and business for your protection. Your business shall prosper! I appreciate your Will Power and continue to be strong! God, Allah, or the Cosmic Energy will continue to empower you. Amen!
Your business shall prosper! I appreciate your Will Power and continue to be strong! God, Allah, or the Cosmic Energy will continue to empower you. Amen!
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Source: Rev. Yaw Obeng-Aduasare, M.Div., Chaplain , Staten Island, New York
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In any case can YAW tell us how many men this lady has dated after the divorce.After the divorce she went to one of her ex boyfreinds in the US and another one in Nigeria.What can Yaw tell this lady.The fact is that our young prety ladies fuck themselves too much and have no moralls.A ghanaian young lady will dated about ten men before she wants a man to marry her.Go to legon,the students are living with lectures as wives and after school,they want a more responsible man to marry.The counsellor is right.Go to the classic department at legon,one of their professors has been sleeping with the ladies in his house and be passing them.The ladies cant eat their cales and have them
Some people just like this so called counsellor like to make themselves popular by always saying things that will give them headlines in news regardless the backlash.Luterrodt should stop meddling in peoples'affairs and condemning persons God had created in his own image such as short persons.Pastor know all should ***barred word*** now.
Yaw, in as much as I agree with the essence of your argument, you sounded more like a "good" Lutherodt without offering any scriptural basis to support your points. Lutherodt has misinterpreted scripture regarding the creation of women and their role in life and one would have expected a Chaplain with an MD in theology to at least address some of those issues instead of blessing people with "Cosmic Energies". That being said, I think our daughters and sisters in their prime who are chasing after older rich men should be advised as well. When I was in Legon (years ago), the very pretty girls preferred to date rich Nigerian business men, foreign based footballers and politicians. They wouldn't go to "***barred word*** canteen" with us their mates to eat gari and beans. They would go to London and the US for holidays while we went back to our villages to find money for school. It is only when there are in their late twenties/early 30s and are still single that they realize that these well-to-do men are only there for the fun. Then this whole CEO/model/philanthropist/movie director/producer/motivational speaker/prayer warrior thing starts. Young girls, life is a long journey don't take shortcuts!
This is in response to @Yaw Obeng-Aduasare. The thrust of the Message of Our Lord Jesus Christ is to love your neighbor as yourself. In fact, it is infantile to quote a Biblical verse to prove a point in any logical dialogue. It demonstrates a lack of understanding of the Redeeming Gospel of Our Lord Jesus Christ. For you information, the English translation of the Bible is the poorest document you have in your possession in regards to Biblical scholarship. It is therefore childish to infer that someone does not understand the English Bible.
It is unfortunate that there are some people in society who mischievously or ignorantly propagates ideas in a given field of studies which they have never applied themselves to study in that given discipline.It is morally and ethically wrong to allow such ignoramuses to continue to emotionally harm people while the good people or God Fearing-people stands on an island of indifference. In fact, those who stand on an island of indifference to gross human degradation are as guilty in front of The Almighty God as those causing the emotional pain in society. Do not support ignorance that harm people!
Marriage is now the key to heaven. The day you come for judgement we will all stand in line with our marriage mates. Counsellor says anybody who is single will be disqualified outright and straight to he'll.
Is true but it hurt. The counsellor is right. I feel so sad for my mates who are not married. Some tell me they envy me. They wish dey are married. I tell them God's tym is the best. Some are more successful than I am but no man. Their happiness is not complete they say. Some marriages tooooo........
I some times dislike the counselor but this time he is making sense
This guy called counselor is doing his business getting attention and a cheap radio station gives him platform to help boost their market share. He throws words out there and those who are able to settle their personal scores with it says it's the truth.....I wonder but at least it's their truth Then he attacks prominent persons and celebrities, mostly single women to boost his attention regardless of how he offends them, but for their personal scores, other people believe it's fine, it's painful truth, at least for their shallow minds. What is truth about somebody's personal choices and private life? He can thrive because he is a version of the numerous so called men of God. To me, anyone who considers this man as saying painful truth has the brain of a child and should continue to tune to him until they mature to understand that he is a joker. One day he will meet his 'meeter'
It saddened my heart to see that this Rev. Yaw Obeng-Aduasare will come to public domain to argue without any substance or facts. I was at least expecting to see one Bible point or reference on which he argued. To engage in any intellectual discuss like he did, it must be based on facts and points but not just vaguely speaking to say people's styles are archaic and so on. I bet he didn't listen to what the Counsellor said before speaking to exhibit his ignorance. What Rev. Yaw Obeng-Aduasare needs to understand is that (1) Juliet did not go see the Counsellor one on one for counselling. The counsellor was responding to a news item in the public domain. (2) The counsellor based his argument on Biblical point/s and for the fact that young ones looks up to Juliet as a role model. I'm siding with the counsellor because a sister I know cited Ms Joyce Arye as a role model and hence she doesn't have to marry. I believed if people like Counsellor Lutterodt were vocal at that time she might have changed her mind. (3) We are in Ghana Africa, and what makes us unique is our culture and principles. Now you have so many countries like America importing labour and skills which I believed it might be part of the reasons you made it there. We don't need that here. (4) If you are calling Counsellor Lutterodt archaic, then you might as well call the Bible archaic because he purely based in points on the Bible quoting & explaining Genesis 2 that " Man was made in the image and likeness of God and specifically for the glory of God, but woman was made in the image of man. She was made specifically for man; she is the glory of man." Unless you don't read your Bible or just don't understand simple English. Rev., note that being in New York means nothing what matters is studying to show yourself approved. I wish I could get you one on one and prove to you that it's not about enticing words of human wisdom but the Word & the Spirit of God is what you need. These are the very things the church today bringing into the body of Christ.In the name of modernisation, You talk against Man-to-Man/Woman-to-Woman marriage and they call you homophobic. Lord have mercy!!